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		<title>How to inspire yourself this year- what worked for me</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[On January 3rd, I was invited to speak out at The Nourishing Wellness Medical Center’s holiday party.  Jeanne Peters RD had called me ahead of time and asked if I would bring my vision boad and speak to the group about not only how to do it, but how to USE it.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On January 3<sup>rd</sup>, I was invited to speak out at The Nourishing Wellness Medical Center’s holiday party.  Jeanne Peters RD had called me ahead of time and asked if I would bring my vision boad and speak to the group about not only how to do it, but how to USE it.</p>
<p><strong>First off, what is a vision board?</strong> Many of you already know and probably already have one but for those of you who do not, it’s a place where you put photos or quotes of things you would like to have in your life.  Some people cut them out of magazines and some people just throw up words or phrases that they create on the computer.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-317" title="random 007" src="http://invisiblefitness.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/random-007-300x225.jpg" alt="random 007" width="300" height="225" /></p>
<p>When The Secret came out, vision boards were a hot topic.  It’s how I manifested my husband in 3 weeks actually.  Jeanne knew this and wanted me to share my experience with their patients to inspire them to do the same and enjoy success in all areas of their lives- esp health and wellness.</p>
<p><strong>How to do a vision board:</strong></p>
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<li>Find and cut out pictures that inspire you</li>
<li>Arrange and attach them to a cork board or posterboad</li>
<li>Be as creative as you like or as simple as you like</li>
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<p><strong>How to USE a vision board:</strong></p>
<p>Putting the pictures on the board will excite you as you do it.  The good, positive feelings you have will help to raise your energy and vibration causing you to become a magnet for higher energy things.</p>
<p>But once the board is up on the wall and you see it everyday, the effect will wear off unless you use it.</p>
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<li>Stand in front of your creation</li>
<li>Pick 1 picture to focus on</li>
<li>Imagine yourself IN the picture</li>
<li>Concentrate on the smells, the sounds, and the feelings of touch or air on your body</li>
<li>Focus on this until you FEEL something in your body for 1-2 minutes</li>
<li>Open you eyes and carry these good feelings with you all day long</li>
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<p><strong>Vision boards are like exercise- they only work if you practice!</strong></p>
<p>for guidance and coaching on<strong> </strong>your weight loss, exercise or wellness vision board<strong> </strong>be sure to start by visiting <a href="http://6weekbeachbody.com">www.6weekbeachbody.com</a> and get your free tools and inspiration and call us at 800 571 5722<strong><br />
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		<title>Think and lose weight. Read why it works.</title>
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Since our 6 Week Beach Body Program uses MIND TOOLS such as EFT, hypnosis and meditation, I wanted to share with you WHY and HOW you can lose weight by changing the way you THINK.
For some of you , the idea of hypnosis is being told to act like a chicken.  Wrong.
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<p>Since our 6 Week Beach Body Program uses MIND TOOLS such as EFT, hypnosis and meditation, I wanted to share with you WHY and HOW you can lose weight by changing the way you THINK.</p>
<p>For some of you , the idea of hypnosis is being told to act like a chicken.  Wrong.</p>
<p>This article was written by Susan French, C.Ht.</p>
<p>Hypnosis is a powerful tool but exactly HOW does it work? The real magic is that hypnosis works as both a &#8220;magic wand&#8221; and as a &#8220;snowball gathering snow.&#8221;</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s take a look at each separately and then how they work together.</p>
<p>The magic-wand effect is when you have a hypnosis session and your issue is solved instantly and without further effort. Magic!</p>
<p>The snowball effect is what you experience with several hypnosis sessions, in which each session reinforces and enhances the relief created by previous sessions.</p>
<p>The reality is that both effects create permanent change. Hypnosis creates the initial change. Reinforcement ensures that the change lasts.</p>
<p>Reinforcement occurs when you regularly use a reinforcement CD made by your hypnotherapist, induce self-hypnosis, or through continued subsequent sessions with your hypnotherapist. Your hypnotherapist guides you in creating the initial change and reinforcing it, thereby accomplishing your goal of permanent, positive change.</p>
<p>Now, let&#8217;s look at it a little more closely.</p>
<p>We use hypnosis to change responses and behaviors. All responses and behaviors are learned. All that hypnosis really does is cause very rapid learning (or relearning) to take place so that new responses and behaviors become automatic.</p>
<p>Hypnosis allows this rapid learning to occur by interrupting the conscious, critical factor of the mind/brain. For reasons of survival, the critical factor of the mind/brain slows down the learning process. However, when those initial survival reasons are no longer necessary, it makes sense to interrupt or bypass the critical factor, which is precisely what hypnosis does &#8211; painlessly, safely, and effectively.</p>
<p>We know that no learning is INSTANT. You didn&#8217;t learn to ride a bike instantly. You didn&#8217;t learn to speak instantly. You didn&#8217;t learn to read or write instantly. You were taught the initial ideas and methods and those ideas were repeatedly reinforced until they become automatic.</p>
<p>Hypnosis allows that learning or relearning to happen more rapidly. However, as with any learning process, it needs to be reinforced. Thus, hypnosis is both a &#8220;magic wand&#8221; and a &#8220;snowball gathering snow.&#8221;</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s take a look at Joanna&#8217;s experience to get a better idea of exactly how hypnosis DOES work:</p>
<p>Joanna was sitting in the waiting room at the Hypnosis Motivation Institute. She was waiting for her first hypnotherapy appointment. She was desperate to lose weight. She had lost and gained at least three hundred pounds in her thirty-two years. Now, here she was, seventy pounds overweight again. She had tried everything.</p>
<p>She had heard some say that hypnosis could be like a magic wand. She had heard others say it didn&#8217;t work at all. Her best friend Martha had just lost fifty-five pounds using hypnosis. She said it was easy and it worked, but that Joanna would have to do her part too. Would it work for her?</p>
<p>If this reminds you of your own questions about weight loss and hypnosis, keep reading.</p>
<p>We can call the habit of overeating a food addiction, compulsive overeating, or a self-destructive habit. Whatever we call it, though, once that kind of behavior takes control, you will need to unlearn old, destructive behaviors and relearn new, constructive ones.</p>
<p>Joanna followed through with her hypnosis for weight loss. She learned the reasons she ate for comfort and she altered those behaviors. She learned that eating good, fueling foods were essential, and she incorporated those ideas into her daily life. She also learned that she needed to move her body more. Exercise became her oasis. It became her &#8220;me-time&#8221; every day.</p>
<p>Joanna lost her seventy pounds easily and happily and has maintained her new weight because she created a new relationship with food, with her body, and with life itself. That was five years ago.</p>
<p>Hypnosis makes the process of transforming counterproductive behaviors to productive behaviors easy, effective, and empowering. Any behavior that does not serve your goals and dreams can be changed using hypnosis.</p>
<p>Hypnosis accelerates your learning process so that what might have taken you twenty years to &#8220;learn&#8221; can be restructured in four to six sessions.</p>
<p>Hypnosis is being used in major medical institutions, such as, Harvard Medical School, UCLA, Stanford, Kaiser Permanente, Beth Israel Deaconness Hospital, and many burn centers, to ease pain, fear, and treatment [, and accelerate healing] for their patients.</p>
<p>Hypnosis is approved by, both, the American Medical Association (AMA) and the National Institute of Health (NIH) for Complementary and Alternative Medical Treatment and as an adjunct to traditional treatments.</p>
<p>The moral of this story is this: if you are wondering if hypnosis is a magic wand or a cumulative change response (snowball effect), it is both!</p>
<p>If all else has failed and you are ready and committed to achieving your goals, it is time to try hypnosis. It works!</p>
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<p>And that&#8217;s why we use it as the foundation for changing your MIND on the 6 Week Beach Body Program.  We want you to have long lasting change, not temporary results!   http://www.6weekbeachbody.com</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[First of all, I want to share a little bit about what I stand for.  Now why you may ask?  Because it will help you determine whether you and I are on the same page and if I have anything to offer you. If I don’t, please unsubscribe from my newsletter. My mission is to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all, I want to share a little bit about what I stand for.  Now why you may ask?  Because it will help you determine whether you and I are on the same page and if I have anything to offer you. If I don’t, please unsubscribe from my newsletter. My mission is to serve those who want what I have to offer.</p>
<p>Please take a minute to read one of my favorite speeches given by Marianne Williamson. I think the title of this is &#8221; Don&#8217;t Shrink&#8221;.</p>
<p>&#8220;Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves,“Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?” Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won&#8217;t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It&#8217;s not just in some of us; it&#8217;s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.&#8221;</p>
<p>Every time I read that I feel like there is nothing else I could say to make this point any clearer. You always have at least 2 options.  You could go left or right, think of something as right or wrong, go forward or backward as well as many other choices, I am sure you get the picture.  And in life, I believe you have the choice to believe that you are here to serve the world or you are here to get from the world.</p>
<p>Can you have both of those beliefs at the same time?  Of course, but on a day to day basis how do you look at the world and what do you expect?  From way back in my childhood, I can remember KNOWING that I had to give back, serve the world and help people.   And through my journey, it has been revealed to me the most effective and joyous ways I can do that.  Just be me.</p>
<p>Live my life to the best of my ability and be an example of what it is I stand for.  Walk my walk and talk my talk. As I learn and grow, I share that with people around me.  I use my life as an example for others to learn from.  I put it ALL out there because I feel that is how I connect with the teachers I have as well.</p>
<p>It’s inspiring to me to watch other women grow, change, become wildly successful, find their perfect mate, be insanely happy and that inspires me to do the same.  If I looked around, read the paper, watched the news every day, I would probably believe that life is hopeless, hard, unhappy and negative.  But I don’t.</p>
<p>I CHOOSE my thoughts.  I search for inspiration. I choose to live my life as an example of inspiration to others who might not otherwise believe in themselves.  I create products and programs that serve as a way for me to reach out and help others overcome the obstacles in their way.  I love what I do and I love who I am.  And everything I stand for is also about helping you to love who you are too.</p>
<p>“Hi JJ, I had to write to tell you I think you are really gifted at what you do and are passionate about. I can&#8217;t tell you how much your own openness and naked honesty about yourself helps me and encourages me in my journey to health, wealth and overall life satisfaction!</p>
<p>I am feeling very encouraged today and feel this sense of encouragement and empowerment that came from our session today will carry me over to the next week, and so on. Thank You again for being true and authentic!” Brenda R, CA</p>
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Watch this first: http://twitpwr.com/Oprah/
1. Oprah&#8217;s exercise form is AWFUL.  She is probably doing a few different exercises for the camera but she has not control, she is swinging her arms and she isn&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oprah&#8217;s been at the weight loss challenge for years.  Do you really want to follow her?  Maybe.  But take a look at this first.</p>
<p>Watch this first: <a href="http://twitpwr.com/Oprah/">http://twitpwr.com/Oprah/</a></p>
<p>1. Oprah&#8217;s exercise form is AWFUL.  She is probably doing a few different exercises for the camera but she has not control, she is swinging her arms and she isn&#8217;t doing enough weight or reps to get real benefit.  Whether this was staged for camera or not, it&#8217;s bad.</p>
<p>2. She isn&#8217;t wearing a Heart Rate Monitor.  HOW CAN SHE NOT KNOW about a HR Monitor?  Bob isn&#8217;t that good&#8230;. This is inefficient use of her time.  The talk test is not very accurate in telling you when it&#8217;s time to change your cardio to get the most bang for your buck in time.</p>
<p>3. She is working out 6 days a week?  No wonder she can&#8217;t stick to a program&#8230;..it&#8217;s all or nothing.  There is a happy medium&#8230;.</p>
<p>4. I am sure she knows nothing about Gluten.  And I would bet money she (since we all are) is gluten sensitive.  The only thing I could see in her diet that&#8217;s gluten is probably the salad dressing&#8230;</p>
<p>5. Mental/ emotional- she didn&#8217;t touch on that one&#8230; but it&#8217;s the foundation.</p>
<p>6. Hormones- Oprah DID NOT test the right things- very incomplete.  She only did TSH. There are 3 Thyroid hormones: TSH, T3 and T4.  Dr Oz is BEHIND the times&#8230;..</p>
<p>7. I heard nothing of Cortisol.  That&#8217;s an adrenal hormone that I am SURE was elevated because of her imbalance of stress and schedule.  She probably had adrenal fatigue but would need to test DHEA to know for sure.  DHEA helps to make your Thyroid hormones so this would be WHY her medication didn&#8217;t work.</p>
<p>What IS good about this video</p>
<p>1.      She is scheduling herself in it for balance- good!</p>
<p>2.      Her food is charted out ( seems a bit boring of a menu to me hence why someone would fall off b/c it&#8217;s not very fun and it&#8217;s too repetitive)</p>
<p>3.      She gets her exercise in</p>
<p>When wanting to follow or create a program &#8211; please get some personal help with it!!!  That way you don&#8217;t waste time, deal with your real issues and have success from the start!  No one likes to waste time..</p>
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		<title>5 Steps to Making Effective Weight Loss Resolutions</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you always make similar resolutions EVERY year?  Do you wonder why you have to keep doing it year after year?
Lasting change comes from 5 things:
1.    Beliefs
2.    Plan of action
3.    Tools
4.    Support
5.    Accountability
Most of us get gung-ho about New Years and say things like &#8220;I am going to lose 25 pounds in January&#8221; or something [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you always make similar resolutions EVERY year?  Do you wonder why you have to keep doing it year after year?</p>
<p>Lasting change comes from 5 things:</p>
<p>1.    Beliefs</p>
<p>2.    Plan of action</p>
<p>3.    Tools</p>
<p>4.    Support</p>
<p>5.    Accountability</p>
<p>Most of us get gung-ho about New Years and say things like &#8220;I am going to lose 25 pounds in January&#8221; or something crazy like that.  Is that possible?  It might be but not for most people. But the bigger question is why do you keep making the same resolution every year?</p>
<p>Are you ready to find a permanent solution?</p>
<p>5 Steps to Making, Getting and Keeping your Weight Loss Resolution</p>
<p>1.    Set 1 goal in January- not 3.  Be realistic and be honest.  If you haven&#8217;t been working out at all, don&#8217;t commit yourself to 5 days at the gym.  You set yourself up to fail when you commit to something drastically different than your current habits. Don&#8217;t try to tackle it all at one time (there is a reason you aren&#8217;t doing it now), just choose ONE!  Let&#8217;s use taking your vitamins regularly as an example for this.</p>
<p>2.    Plan of action- what would make it easier for you to take your supplements every day?  Create a strategy that makes sense for you and your schedule.  Take them to work?  Take them with breakfast?  Take them at night before bed?  Whatever the plan is write it down.  Also, make sure to position this goal (the vitamins) in the place where you know you will remember.  If you want to take them at work, take them to work and stick them on your desk.  If you want to take them at night, stick them in the place you are right before bed.  For me, that would be my night stand OR my computer.</p>
<p>3.    Tools- With our example goals of taking vitamins every day, I would classify tools for this as a pill box, baggies, chart or daily log to write down every day what I am taking, etc. I am doing a Mercury detox right now and needed to take supplements to prepare my tissues for 5-7 days before the cleanse.  I made separate baggies for each day with the vitamins I needed to take.  There are tools available to help you with any goal.  Figure out what yours are and use them.</p>
<p>4.    Support- If you want to commit to those vitamins but you have a hard time with discipline, ask a friend or partner to ask you every day. Find someone else who has the same goal and decide to email once a day to check in. I have been playing an &#8220;affirmation game&#8221; with a friend on the phone for over a month. This ensures that I will do it because we both want the benefits and it makes it more fun!</p>
<p>5.    Accountability- In the case of the vitamins, I would announce to someone that this is my goal and this is how I am going to commit to it. I would create a calendar and stick it on the frig or somewhere other people who live with you can see it. Being accountable to someone else is how we can see our habits and patterns if we are looking.  Our 90 Day Health and Body Makeover Program is centered around accountability. Every week you work with a coach who you have committed certain things to- it&#8217;s your decision what to commit of course.  But it&#8217;s always amazing how we either over commit or make excuses over and over for the same behaviors without examining them for change. <span style="text-decoration:underline;">The definition of insanity</span> is <strong><em>doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results</em></strong>. Is this you?  We can help!</p>
<p>Bottom line- change one habit at a time- use the 5 steps to create a NEW habit and then move on to the next one.  And most importantly- ask for help if you are serious about change.</p>
<p>Happy New Year!</p>
<p>Written by JJ Flizanes, Director of Invisible Fitness.  800 571 5722</p>
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		<title>What if I am just NOT motivated?</title>
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I have gone through some major life changes in the last few months and I myself have been extremely exhausted&#8211;sleeping 10-11 hours every night and still having no energy!  I was so UN motivated and tired to the point of wondering if it was mild depression!  I want to share my story with you [...]]]></description>
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<p>I have gone through some major life changes in the last few months and I myself have been extremely exhausted&#8211;sleeping 10-11 hours every night and still having no energy!  I was so UN motivated and tired to the point of wondering if it was mild depression!  I want to share my story with you for two reasons.  First, I am human too and feel ALL the same things you go through to the extent of my experience.  It&#8217;s always amazing to me to hear what clients think I am &#8220;like&#8221;. I am not super human. Secondly, through my pain and suffering, I hope to provide some hope, insight and maybe a new perspective on your own journey. I also want you to know that I truly understand.</p>
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<p>As some if not most of you know, I got married in early August.  In the few months prior to the wedding, I was on &#8220;super overdrive&#8221; trying to get all details taken care of and successfully fund our event. I had a wedding planner (who was great) and that did help but the stress of this undertaking especially when we did it as a destination wedding was HUGE- more than I thought.  Well, more than I was aware at the time.</p>
<p>The wedding was fabulous and the wedding day was stress free thanks to all this planning! On our honeymoon, we got a call from Jeanne Peters who shared with us a &#8220;healer&#8221; named Ken that creates and works with flower essences.  Jeanne had encouraged us to have a session with him if we could before we left the island.  And we did.</p>
<p>To keep it short and simple, my reading was one of the deepest and intense readings he had ever done.  He said it 4 times in the 45 minutes we spent focused on me. I think he was relieved when my reading was over because he wasn&#8217;t used to delivering such powerful news.  Most flower essence readings are &#8220;kinda nice&#8221; as he described it.</p>
<p>The gist of my reading had to do with very early patterns growing up that I developed to compensate for something I didn&#8217;t want to feel.  There has been a feeling for 30+ years that I have NOT allowed myself to feel!  The flower essences were suppose to bring those up in order to balance them and dissolve them.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s just say that for the past few weeks, since returning from the wedding, I have been not motivated, exhausted, depressed, and physically weak.   This phase went on for 3-4 weeks!!  ( I feel better now)  If I didn&#8217;t have to leave the house, I wouldn&#8217;t.  I even cancelled all my appointment one day because I was immobile and my body felt heavy and weak.  Even going for a walk would get me in my target heart rate zone!  Just WALKING!  I saw physical effects of my emotions.  I had plenty of rest, I ate fairly well (I am still gluten free) so the only thing it could be was emotional.</p>
<p>Wow.  What do you do when you feel this way?  I had no idea.  Normally, I just talk myself out of it! And choosing your thoughts is how to gain control of your life but I was doing it to AVOID feeling what I felt.  And so the feelings would get &#8220;Swept under the rug&#8221; so to speak and have built up over my life time.</p>
<p>So what if you are not motivated?  I wasn&#8217;t.  But what I was- was curious as to WHY.  Of course I have the desire to be as healthy and as fit as I can.  I didn&#8217;t like that I wasn&#8217;t working out.  I didn&#8217;t like feeling exhausted.  But just like a detox, I came to understand what was going on with me to except thi&#8221;phase&#8221;.</p>
<p>Had Ken NOT explained that the emotions would be triggered, I may have not taken the whole prescribed bottle.  But I knew to expect a detox of sorts.  I also while really IN this, made peace with myself, forgave myself and tried to be as loving as I could.  And then it passed.  I didn&#8217;t fight it.</p>
<p>For some people, feeling unmotivated is the excuse to stay in that stage longer than you need to.  It could be fear.  Fear of failure.  Fear of success. Fear of lack of support or fear of the unknown.</p>
<p>What is the underlying reason of your lack of motivation?  I believe, once you can pinpoint that, it dissolves.</p>
<p>For all the ladies who have made it to the end of this story, Jeanne Peters Rd and I are hosting a women&#8217;s only workshop called LOVE YOUR BODY.  It&#8217;s happening November 7-9<sup>th</sup>, 2008.  If you would like to get to the bottom of your lack of motivation or any other feeling that is stopping you from attaining the health and body YOU deserve, call or email to sign up.  We&#8217;d love to help you transform your relationship with YOUR body.</p>
<p>Written by JJ Flizanes, Director of Invisible Fitness</p>
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