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**This is an excerp from my book Fit 2 Love: How to Get Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually Fit to Attract the Love of Your Life.


We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.Thornton Wilder

Please understand that you are perfect just the way you are right now. The journey you are on is unique and special. There is nothing wrong or broken about you. Your mind and body are working perfectly even when they are doing things you don’t like.

You get constant feedback from your body and emotions about where you are in the moment so you can decide where you want to go next. This is a spiritual journey, as much as a physical and emotional journey, of changing your body and manifesting love from within, as well as from another.

While there are many factors in life that are out of your control, you do have the ability to manage your thoughts and how you react to every situation. How you perceive your experiences will color the kinds of emotions attached to them. Choosing a more positive and hopeful outlook will produce better feelings. There are always two points of view to choose from in every situation: what is working and what is not.

Focus on what is working to practice gratitude every single day. This will not only help you manifest more of what you want, it will also make you happy immediately. When you can control your thoughts and feelings, you influence your happiness. If you find this difficult to do or sustain on your own, talking to someone like a psychologist, counselor, or life coach can help you shift your thoughts and change your feelings. Start by thanking your lucky stars.

What is Gratitude?

Gratitude is appreciation for people, places, and things, as well as,
for ideas, qualities, and feelings
Gratitude is thankfulness, and I use it like a key
a key to inspire strangers, my friends, and me
a key to life that sets me free
a key to heal insult and injury
a key to awareness, when I refuse to dream
a key to finding forgiveness and feeling peace
a key to manifest my desires, what I want, and who I choose to be
a key to light the dark times, when I can’t see
a key to expressing my preferences, what I love, the real me
a key to feeling the present moment, gently
a key to reconnect me to humility
a key to boundless opportunity, when I get caught in my limited certainty
a key to transcendence, imagination, and epiphany
a key to turn the hardest moment into a glorious journey
a key to the only foolproof system of love in the galaxy
a key to access infinite possibilities
and when I share my gratitude, gratitude enriches you and me
Gratitude is actually the doorway, choice is the real key
The best part about gratitude is that gratitude is always… absolutely… free!

Gratitude is” by Macarena Luz Bianchi

I filmed the video above on a day I wasn’t feeling so good.  It has been a crazy and slightly emotional week and through it all, I can still focus on what is going well in my life and practice what I preach!

I invite you to watch the video and start to implement DAILY practices into your life that focus you on what IS working instead of what is missing or going not the way you want it.

We all have bad days but HOW you deal with it determines how you create your life.


  • http://www.MindEmotionHarmony.com amber deAnn

    Loved your video and the message to be more into gratitude and the keys of gratitude. Liked the focus part. I will do more gratitude.
    thanks, amber DeAnn

  • http://www.eatingdisordershelp.com Nancy Hopkin

    Your message couldn’t possibly be more important to us as a nation and to the world! Gratitude is the key to happy, healthful living. It is absolutely the door to humility and everything else that is good. It also gives us the power to be who we are. Thanks for the reminder!

  • http://invisiblefitness.com JJ

    Thanks Amber. I think we forget that we really do “focus” even though sometimes when we focus on things that make us feel crazy- it feels like we are NOT focused at all!!

  • http://invisiblefitness.com JJ

    You’re welcome!! Yes, I am one who does not support turning on the news or the TV to see what to “worry” about today- your world is what you create it to be and feeling good- FEELS GOOD!

  • Ana Maria Sanchez

    Love this video JJ got me thinking I too need to give myself breaks as I have become so focused on my goal, a lil obsessive, at times so yes I agree people get pretty hung up on the doing. What I’m doing Saturday, Sunday and part of Monday is taking a nice romantic getaway with my partner and heading to a river!! I deserve it, thank you very much! :)

  • http://invisiblefitness.com JJ

    Good for you Ana Maria! Enjoy your relaxing weekend- I am sure you deserve that and so much more! :)

  • http://www.fortuneisinthefollowup.net Heidi

    Love the message! I like reminding people that we are human Beings not human DOings (not original). I think if we took more down time, we would be happier and more productive people. Wish there was a movement towards a three day weekend every week.

  • http://invisiblefitness.com JJ

    I like THAT idea!

  • http://louiseedington.com Louise Edington

    I’m kind of glad I didn’t get around to listening to this until this morning as it’s JUST what I needed. I was getting really down as my 13 year old is going through a REALLY rough time emotionally and I’m so worried about her. It was just what I needed to take some time to remember what I am thankful for and to take a little time to nurture me today as I’ve done what I can to help her this morning – now I need to recharge me so I am better able to help her. Off to write a gratitude list right now!

  • http://designtalkblog.com Carrie Chavez Hansen

    Loved everything about this JJ! I love the visual of you floating around in the pool and actually doing what you are teaching. It really is so important to remember to be thankful and appreciative of the good in our lives and to take the time to recharge ourselves.

    Carrie Chavez Hansen

  • http://www.aliciadunams.com Alicia Dunams

    Coping is so important – and being grateful. I love how grateful you are JJ. It shows when in your presence, and comes through in your videos. Thanks for sharing happiness.

  • http://invisiblefitness.com JJ

    Awwww, thanks Alicia! :) I aim to spread love and happiness. Funny, yes? My book is Fit 2 LOVE? !